Enable xeus-cpp to be built as an llvm external project for Emscripten build, and enable xeus-cpp to use Emscripten static library build of CppInterOp - #499

Node.js 20 is deprecated. The following actions target Node.js 20 but are being forced to run on Node.js 24: actions/upload-artifact@v4. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2025-09-19-deprecation-of-node-20-on-github-actions-runners/